body issues

Mind The Curve

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I can’t quite figure it out when men tell me, “you’re curvy.” Is it kind of a backwards compliment or is it veiled criticism? The reference to curves could be a slight poke at the extra poundage I’ve cultivated from having had two humans pushed out of me, or it could be a somewhat vague appreciation of my over all abundance.

So which is it — are you saying I’m curvy-fat or curvy-sexy? Choose carefully.